About Me
- Nov 4, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: May 26

My grandparents were the original trash-to-treasure people. They refinished antiques, folded old magazines into Christmas trees, and quilted from whatever scraps they had on hand. They foraged, gardened, and built their own home. They never had much, but everything they touched became something. I loved my afternoons-turned-weekends at their house, learning, making, my grandmother's gentle corrections, and inevitable coos of wonder at whatever I was making. The imprint of that time shapes every chapter of my life: true creativity doesn't require a big budget. It requires resourcefulness and a willingness to see potential where others see nothing.
I grew up learning to apply that lesson early, out of necessity. I became self-sufficient at a young age, working my way through high school and eventually into restaurant kitchens, where I started as a busser and worked my way up to the line. By college, I had landed a job in the kitchen of a chef who had come from a Michelin-starred restaurant in New York to open a fine dining establishment in Seattle. He took a chance on me because I convinced him I was coachable, hardworking, and had no ego about learning. I spent years in professional kitchens after that, including a stint as the sole chef in a pub kitchen responsible for everything from prep to peak service, and eventually as the cook on a charter boat in Europe. I had to feed a full crew three meals a day using unfamiliar local ingredients, no cookbooks, no internet, and zero margin for error. The captain told me I was the best chef he had ever had. I still savor that compliment to this day.
That pattern, entering a new domain as a hungry learner, figuring it out through discipline and honest self-reflection, and eventually doing some of those things well, is the through line of my life. It is how I approach everything.
It doesn't always work.
Sometimes what I learn is that I got it wrong. Actually, I often learn that I got it wrong, so much so that I feel lucky when I get it right. Like how you shoot the rind into the compost with the lid only half open and someone DOES see it. It's that rare that I get things right on the money in one shot. No matter what I learn, the spirit is best summed up in the movie Finding Dory: Just keep swimming.
I brought that same ethos into motherhood, which is where it got the biggest workout. My grandparents were creative out of necessity. I was creative out of necessity too, but now I had to be creative at scale. With toddlers. Nearly three decades of raising four kids means roughly three decades of weekends cooking for crowds, improvising birthday party crafts at 7am, and inventing holiday rituals that somehow became sacred. The arts and crafts were never about Instagram. They were the fastest way I knew to get a kid to sit down, slow down, and say the thing they had been carrying around all day. You hand someone a piece of clay or let them work the mixer, and suddenly, they are talking. It works every time.
I brought it into business. My husband and I built a mobile gaming company from nothing, no funding, no connections, just the same stubborn resourcefulness I learned watching my grandparents turn junk into treasure. We scaled it into a successful exit. Along the way, I got a real education in product development, partnerships, marketing, and operations, the kind you only get from building something that has to actually work while you are competing with well-funded giants. No pressure.
I brought it into my spaces. I have designed and renovated homes that have sold for significant figures, been featured in the New York Times, and managed projects with budgets that would raise an eyebrow in anyone who assumes a DIY mindset means small-scale. It does not. It means intentional scale.
Now I am in a new chapter. For the first time, creativity gets to be the point rather than the thing I squeeze in around the edges. Craft and Bond is where all of it lives: the food, the making, the home, the travel, and the ongoing experiment of figuring out how to build a life that feels beautiful on the inside and out.
My recipes and projects are as much a document for my own family as they are for you. But if any of it resonates, if you are someone who enters every new thing as a learner and finds your way to doing it well, I think you are my people.
Pull up a chair.
Kellie




Comments